When I mentioned this week’s topic to a friend in class, she took a really long look at me and said, “girl you got some guts!”
And I said “How about I pour out my guts?”

Last weekend, my girlfriends and I had a girls’ night out. After a long time apart, we decided to meet up and catch up on what was happening in our lives. Inevitably, our romatic relationships or lack thereof kept popping on our agenda tenaciously.
Romantic relationships are a double edged sword; with a sharp and sharper side, cutting through tough times and cutting short sweet times. Nonetheless, there is a blunt side shadowed with the less talked about topics, and we talked about those topics, one in particular.
One of my girls was sitting on a problem and one could tell from her expression that whatever was bothering her was huge. More like the big elephant in the room. Her partner was the expeditious type. In her words “hit and run type” and this was frustrating her.
For a second we all burst out laughing. What was being hit and who was running?
“Ummmh, I d-don’t how to put it” she stammered trying to hide her obvious embarrassment. Her timidity and apparent innocence caged her words and only a few incoherent words escaped. What was on her mind?

“He cums too fast!” she blurted out, capturing the attention of waiter who was horrified. For a moment, he looked our way petrified by this group of girls who dared talk bedroom matters on a hotel table. How manner less, he must have thought.
I looked at her and felt the disappointment and guiltless ignorance.
“But you know what, I got your back.”

Sex clinic on a hotel table as you sip margarita for you my dear.

Ever heard of premature ejaculation?
This is when there is an orgasm and emission of semen before or shortly after beginning sexual intercourse; within one minute of vaginal penetration.
If it happens infrequently it is not an alarming. Studies have shown that 1 in 3 men have experienced premature ejaculation at one point in their lives. It’s not a big deal not only of it happens frequently, he is unable to delay an ejaculation and end up feeling distressed and frustrated out of it. If so, he should see a doctor.

On the flip side, is delayed ejaculation. This is inability to achive an orgasm despite typical sexual desire and sexual stimulation. In some cases, ejaculation is not achieved at all. Even so, this condition does not pose any serious medical risk but can be a source of stress and create strain in personal relationships. The good news is, treatment is available.

She must have been taking notes, because she made a phone call and left. I think it’s time someone’s son visited a doctor.
It would go without say that she would be occupied for any other girls’night out in the coming days.
You should too, book yourself an appointment.

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Hello my kings and queens👸🤴
Do not suffer silently, there is healing when you find out you are not alone
Make that daughter of Eve say your name🥵
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